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Good Shepherd Lutheran Church of Old Bridge, NJ

Good Shepherd Lutheran Church of Old Bridge, NJ

A caring community committed to Jesus Christ

“TheTalk”

Are you ready for something different?  A different kind of format for a learning opportunity? You are invited to join our new Life Group Community offering, TheTALK.

Join us in our next life application growth opportunity as we look at the book ‘Canoeing the Mountains’ by Tod Bolsinger. The book examines Christian living in a post-Christian world, using the historical Lewis and Clark expedition as a metaphor for navigating uncharted territory in which old maps (traditional methods) no longer work. We’ll look at embracing adaptive living, focusing on building trust, fostering learning, asking more profound questions, and leading others.

The Challenge: Like Lewis and Clark, Christians face a new landscape (post-Christian culture) where some of their “canoes” (traditional methods) are useless; they get to learn to navigate mountains (new realities).

The Goal: To survive and thrive by adapting missions and methods to reach people in a world where the church isn’t central.

Key Living Concepts

Adaptive Living: Leading through complex, uncertain challenges where solutions aren’t obvious, requiring learning and experimentation.

Technical problems have known solutions (e.g., fixing a leaky roof); adaptive challenges require fundamental shifts (e.g., changing cultural relevance).

Trust: No one follows others off the map unless they trust them; trust is built slowly and lost quickly.

Loss and Resistance: People resist change not because they dislike it, but because they mourn the loss of familiar traditions; leaders get to guide them through this grief.

Christians can identify essential core values (DNA) to preserve while discarding outdated practices, thereby freeing resources for new forms of ministry.

Practical Application for Leaders

Ask Deeper Questions: What must we keep, what can we discard, and what new DNA needs to be created?

Create Safe Spaces: Foster environments in which failure is viewed as a learning opportunity rather than a reason for punishment, thereby encouraging growth.

Embrace Experimentation: Develop hypotheses, try solutions, learn from failures, and try again. Learn to seek extraordinary support in unexpected ordinary places.

Lead with Vulnerability: Be willing to learn as you go and expect personal transformation, not just for the congregation.

We look forward to having ‘TheTALK’ with all of you!

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Sunday Morning 10 am
In-person or Online

Kids’ Connection at 9 am

Use this link to register your child.  The program runs from September through May. Register here.

Upcoming Events

  • The TALK will be held this morning at 9 am in the Fellowship Hall.
  • Join us for our “Bold SOULtions.” We will also hold a FALL “The Talk” on the Series, Sundays at 9 am.
  • Blessing of the Backpacks and Kid’s Connection Launch will be on Sunday, September 13, 2026 at 10 am. A family picnic follows immediately after the service.   Details to follow.  A sign-up sheet for the picnic is in the narthex.
  • Kid’s Connection begins on Sunday, September 20, 2026 at 9 am.  Register at gs4nj.org.
  • Old Bridge Day is Saturday, September 26, 2026.  Please plan on joining us so that we can have a large presence at the Fair.
  • A Voters Meeting will be held on Sunday, October 18, 2026, right after the 10 am service.  We will hold elections for the Board and review last year’s budget and the 26-27 Fiscal Year Budget.
  • The Harvest Fest will be held on Sunday, October 25, 2026, from 4-6:30 pm.

 

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Good Shepherd Children's Center has provided a loving, Christian, educational environment for Old Bridge and its surrounding communities for more than 50 years.

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Good Shepherd Lutheran Church
3139 County Rd 516
Old Bridge, NJ 08857
732-679-8883